Do You Ever Feel Like?…

Do you ever feel like getting help for one of your conditions is like having to choose between being eaten by a shark or devoured by a crocodile?…..‬

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10 Tips For better sex with chronic illness

I was the black sheep in the family; the one always castigated for being too open, asking questions I shouldn’t or talking about things that shouldn’t be talked about. When a cousin of mine’s dog died, I was crushed; having always loved him. I made the mistake of asking how he died after saying how […]

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13 Things I’ve Lost Since Getting Sick

Fibro and chronic illness take hold of your life and throw it in a blender. It gets jostled around, chewed up, makes a mess and looks NOTHING like it did before it got pulverized. More often, it results in a liquidy, watered down version of what once was.

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Why the End of Quarantine Can be an Insurmountable Challenge For Some

Bound and determined, I harnessed up the dogs, attached them to their double leash and set out for our walk. It was so beautiful yesterday and I was feeling good, so I decided to attempt the walk alone. How hard could it really be? I made it about 1/5th of our normal route, but our […]

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15 Ways You Can Advocate for Better Health Care

You hire a contractor to paint your house and expect he will paint it red-because that’s what you said. Instead, he paints it blue because he knows better. After all, it is his profession, not yours and theoretically, he does know more about paint. Would you pay him? If you just said yes, I may […]

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Coming Full Circle With My Crazy Corona Mind

I haven’t written for a bit. To be honest, I have been entirely too caught up in my own mind to do so. Since I began writing, my goal has always been not to rant or ramble about my own struggles, but instead, to write about the lessons I’ve learned from them. In the last […]

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Trouble Pooping? Here’s What Helped…

Ok. Ready? I’m going to talk about something we never do. Pooping. Oh my gawd. I know. Crazy. But we all do it. And when we can’t, it’s awful. So here I go……(writing, not pooping)

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